[release-3.9] UPSTREAM: 59365: Fix StatefulSet set-based selector bug

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This is an automated cherry-pick of #18797

/assign tnozicka

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/lgtm

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ci/openshift-jenkins/extended_networking_minimal	18721ff	link	/test extended_networking_minimal
ci/openshift-jenkins/gcp	18721ff	link	/test gcp

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[mfojtik]

This is backport from master, the failures are unrelated to changes and are known infra flakes. Merging with green button.